It is widely taught these days that there is an age of accountability and if you die before you reach this age, you automatically go to heaven because you haven’t aged/matured enough to be held accountable for any of your sins. Is this a biblical view, or an unbiblical view?
The view that there is an age of accountability assumes that people make the choice of whether they believe or not and are therefore in charge of whether they receive salvation or not. According to what the bible says, this is not the case.
“There is none who seeks for God; All have turned aside, together they have become useless; There is none who does good, there is not even one.” (Romans 3:11-12)
“The fool has said in his heart, “There is no God.” They are corrupt, they have committed abominable deeds; There is no one who does good. The Lord has looked down from heaven upon the sons of men to see if there are any who understand, who seek after God. They have all turned aside, together they have become corrupt; there is no one who does good, not even one.” (Psalm 14:1-3)
Obviously according to scripture we do not look for or seek God apart from His work.
“All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I will certainly not cast out.”
“For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brethren, and these whom He predestined, He also called; and these whom He called, He also justified; and these whom He justified, He also glorified.” (Romans 8:29-30)
However it is very evident in scripture that God calls people to himself and that is where our salvation comes in. Salvation is absent apart from God, there is nothing we can do to bring ourselves to a point of receiving salvation. Remembering that there are none who seeks for God in combination with the fact that we have all sinned means that infants are not without sin.
“…for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God…” (Romans 3:23)
We can see now that there is no age of accountability taught in the bible but rather that God chooses whom He will. While this is probably something that is hard to grasp for many, (it used to be for me as I was raised Nazarene and stood for most of my life on the Arminian side of things) that not everybody has a chance at heaven. Just remember that without God choosing any of us, none of us would ever reach heaven or get to experience His grace and mercy. Rather than being upset with God for doing things His way, I urge you to be all the more thankful for your salvation. As Paul said, “The grace of the Lord Jesus be with you.” (1 Cor. 16:23)